“The use of traveling is to regulate imagination by reality, and instead of thinking how things may be, to see them as they are.” – Samuel Johnson
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Spirit of the Andes
Sitting at the top of 4600 meters (=15000 ft or half of Everest) I had a moment to reflect on all that I have seen along this trek...Let me tell you a story about their lives. These Quechua people basically have what they provide for themselves. At the home we visited, was a family of 5. A woman who owned the home and then her sister with her 3 children. The oldest child was not home as he is 7 and walks 2 hours to school every day. The children (Christian was the boy's name, but I don't remember the little girls name?) were so happy and excited to see us. I gave little Christian a mandarin orange and he was so happy. He wouldn't put it down.
The family let us into their single roomed home, picture this: one end is the kitchen, pots and pans stored on the ground and the fireplace where they will cook all of their food. The roof of the house is black from the smoke of the fires. All along the edges is their storage and anything to be kept dry surround the main part of the home. On the opposite end of the home is a leveled room. No doors, we could just see the bedding. There are guinea pigs, cats and dogs that all share this with the family. The Coy/ guinea pigs are one of the healthiest meats and although they are pets now, will one day be consumed by the family. Hanging from the ceiling of the home was meat from animals, the neck and ribs of an alpaca, etc. You can't even begin to describe how humbling this family's home was.
As our group sat around the edges of the inside of the home, Johan told us about their lives. What makes these people happy and how the continue to live their life in such a simple way. I remained speechless and was touched and changed in ways I don't think I have been in a long, long time. The Quechua people are some of the least selfish people around. In their communities everything is shared. Everyone contributes to the work. If they are going to build a home for a new couple, everyone comes and helps. If they need help with their farms, everyone contribues. Johan said that the government has tried to help them and make their communities 'more modern', but that it never took for them. Because they don't view life as we do. They don't understand all that we know and for that matter, don't need all that we have.
When did we become such a selfish people? I am definitely not saying that I would prefer to live like they do, but it humbles me and helps put into perspective the things that I need to better myself; more giving and willing to help others. I don't need as much as I think to survive. I do not pity these people in the slightest. I respect them for who they are and how they continue to raise their families and live their lives. These people truly are what makes the Spirit of the Andes.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Clarity
Have you ever had a moment where everything is in total chaos and yet you can see perfectly clear in front of you? Well today I felt it. I was walking back from the gym with my thoughts going a million miles an hour. Listening to my ipod, a song came on, What's a Boy to Do by Mat Kearney. It was at that moment that all of my emotions came flooding through me...happiness, sadness, loneliness, comfort, love, loss, tiredness but mostly clarity. It is incredible that music can have that power of us and I love it! Take a listen and enjoy.
I actually don't think the meaning of the song has anything to do with what I was feeling...lol.
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Aging
So I have been pondering my emotions and frankly just the way I am in relationships...trying to get to the root of the problem I am having as a single adult. Yep, I said it, adult...somehow I don't know where the years have gone ;)
I have been brought up to be independent and self sufficient. Which I am proud that I am able to work hard for all that I do and get in life. But with this comes age and MORE independence. As I have yet to find my prince charming I am alone in this endeavour. Now I am starting to recognize a problem. I enjoy people! I love getting to know someone and seeing what makes a person the way they are. I enjoy finding differences and hearing life experiences that help me grow. The problem arises, that as much as I enjoy being around my best friends, the people who make my life so much better...I like to be alone. I need my own space and my own time.
I have found this hard for some people to understand and I am starting to see that I may be too independent. I might push people away because I need this alone time.
Yet we are expected to work full time, go to school full time and work, plus... do service, go to all the activities that are put on for the 'young' single adults, date, study, etc. I love staying busy and doing all of these things. So the remaining moments (if you can even call them that) of my day are wanting to just sit in my room and read, discover photo projects to work on, but basically to just be by myself sorting through my mind.
Aging is a hard thing to do alone and yet I wonder if it is easier to do with someone by your side? I guess that is the question I need to figure out...
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
I could do Sydney
Give me a city where there is parks, cafes, shopping and Mexican food...I could do it. Seriously, though Sydney was great. I really enjoyed my short little taste of it. The people were friendly and helpful (although I only think I heard about 2 people speak with an Australian accent?) Wicked was, well wicked! Shopping was pretty grand. But most importantly they had delicious, cheap Mexican food. It was just what I needed! I little slice of spice in every bit...mmmmmm.
Taken from the ferry to the Zoo. Sydney, Australia.
My bf.
Cute little koala <3
What would a place be, if it didn't have delicious gelato!
Saving the best for last, 2 delicious chicken tacos. In corn tortillas, corn salsa and med salsa, black beans, cheese and lettuce. Mmmmmmmm....need I say more!
Auckland City at night
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Almost there...
So I have updated some of my most recent adventures. But not really any of my thoughts or feelings...so let me give you a run down.
I love my life. I have done and seen so many things around the world. I have met people all around who have changed my life. So the question looming in my mind is what is my next step?
When we are young, you think 'oh I will graduate, get married, get a job, live ____, start a family, etc.' Now it seems that I have done all of the steps to get there, but have not reached that point of knowing the final answer. Granted, every move I have made I have felt good about and I know that I have learned or experience (at least part of) what I was suppose to. But since moving to New Zealand, I have felt a big weight as to my next move? That this next one is an important one? So I have been researching, studying, praying so that I make the right move.
I think I am almost there...
It's been a while...
Okay so I have been throwing myself into life in New Zealand and obviously so much so, that I have forgotten to blog about any of the adventures. I am going to include in this post a few of the memories and adventures that I have had so far...
After the dance we went and walked down Queen Street as super heroes and we found more heroes on the street!
Super hero dance...I of course was Captain Underpants!
Our campsite - we got these vans and then had to try and keep out of the rain (didn't help and just created a wind tunnel) The weekend was spent mostly in the vans, in the kitchen or getting sick in the rain ;)
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